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Welcome to the Family Jeep

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This is what is replacing my beloved BMW.  I'm pretty excited about the Jeep because, other that a BMW, this is the car I always wanted.

We switched for a few reasons.  First the BMW was proving to be incompatible with my lifestyle.  I like to, though I rarely do, mountain bike.  I also own a canoe I couldn't transport.  And, finally, the family has begun camping with some regularity and the Jeep will make those trips much easier (plus I can take the canoe and bikes with us camping) .

I may be a bit sad to lose my BMW but I'm happy to have a Jeep in my life now.

Goodbye BMW

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Today I say goodbye to a great car.  I'm trading it in on a newer vehicle.

I've really enjoyed my BMW; its comfortable, fast, handles great; it's quiet and it looks damn good.

Today is the end of an era in my car life.  Goodbye BMW.

New Badge

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My old hood ornament faded so today I replaced it.  This is as close as I get to being an auto mechanic.  I have to say the new one looks damn good on there.

Introspection

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I don't post to this blog much anymore. It isn't because I have nothing to say; I just don't get around to jotting it down and, truth be told, most of what I put here is just a shallow glance at some event or aspect of my life. I rarely, if ever, use the space as a "journal" where I might be introspective. Hell, I'm rarely introspective in any context of my life - I can't remember the last time I really looked deeply at myself and evaluated things. I just don't do it.

Maybe that's for the best? I dunno - but the concept of introspection, whenever the topic presents itself to me, is appealing. Today the topic popped up because a friend and coworker (Ed C.) recently won a t-shirt. He had been reading a website called "The Domino Project" which, it seems, aims to redefine the publishing industry. Their first published work is a special edition of Ralph Waldo Emerson's "Self Reliance" (I've never read anything by him so I can't comment on this book). I went to the site to see why they would have had the contest Ed won. (Well, other than to get people to go to their site). While at the Domino Project site I followed a link out to a separate but related project they are running called "". The moniker is actually a twitter hashtag so, if you want to get a feel for how people are participating check out Twitter's Search Results For that tag.

The basic premise is that each day the project will email some sort of prompt that participants will then consider and write about. Here is an example of one of the Prompts:


To believe your own thought, to believe that what is true for you in your private heart is true for all men, that is genius. – Ralph Waldo Emerson

What is burning deep inside of you? If you could spread your personal message RIGHT NOW to 1 million people, what would you say? (prompt written by Eric Handler)



Beyond being a marketing gimmick to sell the Emerson book the project is intended to be a writing exercise. I though about making the pledge and participating but then realized that I wouldn't have a clue on how to answer any of the prompts I read (and about half of the 30 day project has passed). This example prompt seems like a fairly straight forward question but I don't even know what the hell a "personal message" is. I certainly don't have one. Honestly, the project, for me would be more of a thought exercise than it would be a writing one because I would have to break down some mental barriers to find my answer to any of the prompts.

I have tried to think about what my "personal message" might be but I almost instantly become uncomfortable even thinking about it. I don't really know why though I suppose, like many things, you have to practice at looking at yourself before you can actually do a decent job of it. I don't think I live some form of deluded life where I have a false understanding of my self - just that I don't know if I really, honestly, know myself at all.

It's really awkward to write this because I don't know how to explain something I don't understand. I may give some of the prompts a go though I won't be signing up for the project. I don't think I'd be capable of keeping up with the prompt a day pace.

I'll be posting this and any follow up (if they happen) posts in their own category on the site (trust30) so if you are subscribed to the site via email but don't want to read them you can exclude that category.

Passage of Time 2011

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I have updated our passage of time page to reflect the year 2011. I still need to find some photos to fill in the gaps for Lisa and Myself between 2000-2003. This is always fun for me to look at. Shannon, with her much shorter hair and plumper cheeks, looks quite a bit different while Emily looks as if she has aged more than one year in these past 12 months. I've gained some hair on my scalp while losing it from my chin and Lisa's hair is both shorter and brighter - she has now kept her part to the left for two consecutive years after swinging it to the right for the three years prior; I guess she is happy with the change.

You can view the entire timeline at our passage of time page

Natural Resources and Government Subsidies

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A long time ago I thought I had a pretty good grasp of what my political leanings were but, over time, things have become muddled and I can't easily say I align with one ideology or party. It seems, as I learn more, my position on all sorts of topics changes every day. Thus I'm going to attempt to focus on some of those ideas here and see where I end up. Thus, if you aren't interested in politics at all please just ignore these posts. To all others I'd love to read your civil discussion in the comments.

I live in West Virginia a state that seems to live and die with their prime natural resource Coal. Coal mining is a tricky topic because it drives a lot of our economy but also is a real wedge issue in the state due to the environmental issues surrounding coals extraction. My concern around the industry, however, isn't limited to just the potential environmental damage it does to our state but rather then financial damage.

I don't claim to be an investigative journalist so please bear with as I try to sort out some of the numbers that get thrown around concerning Coal and West Virginia. I think the most telling statistic is what the actual cost of Coal Mining is to the state. According to a study by the West Virginia Center on Budget and Policy "the total net impact on the WV state budget in FY 2009 amounted to a net cost to the state of $97.5 million."

5 Second Rule

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5 Second Rule


 

No More Homework

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Art by Shannon.  This cracked me up.

Hopefully it is clear enough to read.


EDIT: oh, well, I just looked at this on a normal screen and the photo sucks. I'll try to get a better copy uploaded tomorrow or the next day.

I Love the Park in the Spring

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Even in this small view of the park it's incredibly peaceful.

Surprise - We're Going to Disney World

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Last week was Spring Break for the girls and Lisa and I had a wickedly fun plan to surprise them with a trip to Disney World. On Monday morning Lisa took the girls to Patti's house as she normally would if we were going to work and then she came back home where she and I worked on finishing the packing before we headed back over to get the girls.

When we got there Shannon was pretty confused. She wanted to know why we were there and we told her that since it was the first day of Spring Break that we had taken the afternoon off to have some fun with her and Emily. Emily suggested we go to Ritter park - so I asked if maybe she'd like to go to a larger park. Shannon said sure. I asked them if maybe they'd like to go to Disney World and Emily said "YES!" and Shannon said "Sure." I told Emily "OK, Let's go" and Emily started to hop around in excitement. Shannon very skeptically said again, "Sure, let's go to Disney World." I agreed with the idea again and old her I was serious, that we could go to Disney World that day. Shannon didn't believe me at all but Emily did and she was stoked. I ended up pulling our suitcases out and showing Shannon all of the stuff we packed before she seemed convinced.

From Patti's we went to Arby's for a light lunch and then the local, small, airport for a direct flight to Orlando Stanford Airport. It is a smaller airport about 45 minutes from Disney - but we had a car waiting on us and we went straight to our hotel, The Port Orleans. In the past we've always stayed at the All Star hotels - but we decided to upgrade our accommodations this time so that our bus rides to each park would be a bit shorter. Overall we were glad we did. The hotel was nice, the food was better than that at the All Star, and the bus ride was a lot shorter. Plus, the swimming pool looked really cool and had a neat water slide.

After we settled in we decided to head to the Magic Kingdom part of the park (the traditional Disney World) in order to get in some rides and enjoy one of the many parades. We stayed at the park until around midnight before we headed back to the hotel for some sleep. Everyone had a nice time and, I think, by this time Shannon was fully convinced. Our first full day, Tuesday, also took place at the Magic Kingdom.

We started Tuesday off by waiting to meet with Rapunzel - Emily's current favorite princess. The wait was pretty lengthy so while Lisa and Emily waited Shannon and I went to Tomorrowland and took in the Stich Experience which we knew Emily wouldn't like. Once that was done we headed back to Emily and Lisa for the Rapunzel experience. Rapunzel's bit lasted for about an hour because the girls were given a craft to do, then they danced with Rapunzel and her beau Flint Ryder. Finally they each got to have their picture taken with the pair. Rapunzel did a great job of playing the part but I have to say Flint did an even better job - he had the Flint Ryder smirk down pat. Their helpers also did a great job of keeping all of the kids engaged while they waited on their turn to have their photo taken. It was the most interactive experience they've had with a Disney character so far.

After the Rapunzel experience we walked around Fantasy Land and took in some rides like the teacups which Emily and Shanon both loved; especially since I was tasked with making the cup spin as fast as possible. We also made sure to go on the rest of Emily's favorite rides like "A Small World" and "Dumbo" it was great watching her have so much fun.

Four years ago, on our first trip to Disney World, I tricked Shannon into going on Space Mountain with my brother and his two kids. I was pretty worried about her and was not a good companion for the ride and I undoubtedly made the experience more stressful for her than it had to be. Earlier this school year, for English class, Shannon wrote a paper about how terrified she was on the ride but how she also had a lot of fun. With that in mind she decided she wanted to try out Space Mountain again so we got in line. However, just before we could get on the ride she backed out and decided against it.

A bit later that evening the four of us went on Thunder Mountain which is an outside roller coaster themed like an old train. Emily had been on it before but wasn't thrilled with going on it again on this trip but both she and Shannon enjoyed themselves. When we had finished I mentioned to Shannon that Space Mountain wasn't much different but that it was indoors and dark. She decided again to go on the ride and this time she didn't back out. Instead she had a blast and asked to go right back on it.

It was around 11:30pm and the park was mostly empty so we were able to go through the line without waiting. She was addicted to the ride and wanted to go on it again and again but, sadly, the park was closing so we couldn't do it more than twice. I was super proud of her for overcoming her fear and trying it again.

On Wednesday we went to Epcot Center. There we went on Mission: Earth which is a cool NASA simulation that sort of feels like you're taking off in a rocket and sling-shotting around the moon to Mars. It's pretty fun and Shannon, who had done it on our last trip, still really enjoyed it. A bit later we went to one of Emily's favorite rides "Finding Nemo" which has some pretty cool technology in it that makes the animated fish seem to be existing in the real world artifacts of the ride. I'm not sure how it works but it is cool and all four of us enjoyed it.

Before dinner we headed back to the hotel to spend some time in the pool. We had actually spent a little bit of time in it the day before but without Lisa. On Wednesday Lisa came to the pool too and the girls were able to show her how they could use the water slide. Shannon just learned how to basically swim last summer and Emily still can't. Thus, at the slide Shannon got the hang of it and was willing to slide off and submerse herself - a particularly cool trick considering her prior reluctance to put her head under water. Emily wasn't really ready to do the slide by herself so she would get to the top of the slide and call out my name and then give me a thumbs up. She wouldn't slide down until I returned the thumbs up signal. It was pretty cute.

That night we had dinner at a restaurant with Chip 'n Dale (Pluto and Mickey were there as well). It was a neat restaurant that rotates above one of the rides we had gone on earlier in the day. The girls really enjoyed the meal, the changing scenery, and the characters. After that we headed to Downtown Disney for some shopping and we finally made it back to the hotel by midnight. It was a great day but also exhausting so when we finally got back to the hotel we all fell into a deep sleep for a later wake up the next morning for a day at Disney's Hollywood Studios.

Hollywood Studios is a more "adult" themed park with bigger rides and more "extreme" shows. Overally I think it was Emily's least favorite day with the exception of a neat magical experience that evening that had Mickey replaying his role as the Sorcerer's Apprentice. Honestly, I thought the show was bit disjointed but some of the effects in it were pretty cool. However, it was not the highlight of my day - instead Shannon turned the trip from a good one into a great one by opening my eyes.

Earlier in the day she had asked me about the Aerosmith Rockin Roller Coaster. I told her, based on part of my memory, that it was like a much faster Space Mountain. I didn't mention the loop-the-loop or the corkscrew. She decided she wanted to go on it so we headed over. There was a 70 minute line! In hopes that we could shortcut the line we went in the single-rider line where they separate groups and fill in empty seats. Our wait was still about 60 minutes but eventually we were put on the ride. We were actually in the same car but she was about 10 rows behind me. I was pretty worried about her but because we were so far apart I couldn't talk to her or really think about how she was doing - I just had to hold on and enjoy the ride.

I'm glad we were apart. I think, had I been with her, that I would have ruined the ride for her with my stress. Instead she thought it was the best ride ever. She loved it and wanted to go right back on it. She loved the loop-the-loop and thought going upside down was amazing. She couldn't have been happier and I was super proud of her. As we left the ride I asked her if she wanted to go on the Tower of Terror and she declined. It was at this point that we had to go to the big Mickey show so she had about an hour to contemplate the Tower. When the show ended she told me she did want to give the tower a try. I was a little surprised but I wasn't worried considering how well she handled the Rocking Roller Coaster so we hurried over and got in the empty line.

As we were getting in she said she was a little worried and I said, "don't be, the roller coaster is scarier than this" and I meant it. We rode up and then the drops began. We fell about five stories, bounced back up, fell again, zoomed up and down and up and down. After about five bounces she said she felt like she was going to get sick and I told her to hold on, we only had one bounce left. She smirked in disbelief but I was lucky and we only had one left - it was a big one though. She didn't get sick but she was glad it was over. I gave her five and we walked away from the ride where she decided she was swearing it off and wouldn't ride it again.

As we walked down the path, away from the ride, a mother was talking to her son telling him he could handle the Tower that the Rocking Roller Coaster was scarier. Shannon turned around and yelled, "NOT IT ISN'T! DON'T BELIEVE HER THIS IS MUCH WORSE!!" It was hilarious. Needless to say the boy did not get up to go on the ride.

From there we reconnected with Lisa and Emily, had our photo taken by the huge Mickey Sorcerers Hat, and then headed back to the hotel for some sleep before our flight home.

It was our best, and shortest, Disney trip yet. The lines were, generally, non-existent and the weather was perfect (mid 80s, sunny, and no-humidity). The girls both did things they had never done before, neither one of them was sick at all, and they will both remember this trip for years to come. It was awesome to see them both have so much fun. All in all it was a great surprise for their Spring Break and Shannon's 10th birthday. I'll post photo's as soon as I have a chance.